Trailer -Do You Feel It?
This trailer introduces the Divorce Designed for the Destination podcast, created for women who have decided to divorce and feel overwhelmed, uncertain, and unsure where to begin.
S1E1 How to Design Your Divorce with Clarity and Intention
Disney didn't just build a theme park; he designed an experience around a vision. In this episode, Cynthia uses Disney's concept of Imagineering to reframe divorce as a life transition you can design with intention. Instead of reacting to deadlines and court dates, you'll learn how future vision guides better decisions, so the way you divorce supports the life you want afterward.
S1E2 Why You Must Divorce Smart From the Start
One of the biggest mistakes people make in divorce is assuming that hiring an attorney means they no longer need to understand what's happening. In this episode, Cynthia explains why being your own advocate is non-negotiable and how costly information, even from trusted professionals, can permanently change outcomes. This episode lays the foundation for doing divorce smart from the start by introducing the mindset, structure, and strategy that protect your future decisions.
S1E3 Do This First to Guarantee Positive Results
One size does not fit all.
And yet, that's exactly how most divorce processes are built.
In this episode, Cynthia uses a simple, everyday moment, standing in the grocery aisle staring at twenty kinds of ranch dressing, to explain why divorce requires a custom framework, not a generic process. You'll learn why uour divorce needs a structure designed around your life, how strategy changes everything, and what it means to approach divorce sequentially instead of reactively.
S1E4 How to Have Incredible Confidence in Your Divorce
Confidence in divorce grows when you have a reliable way to find the information you need, especially when important decisions are on the table. In this episode, Cynthia explores organization as a practical source of steadiness during the divorce process, using a simple story about having the right tool at the right time. She explains how organizing information reduces overwhelm, restores a sense of control, and supports clearer thinking around financial, legal, and parenting decisions. The focus is on building systems that work with real life and real brains, so you’re not relying on memory or perfection to move forward. If the volume of details in divorce feels heavy or distracting, this episode offers a calmer way to approach it — one that builds confidence quietly, step by step.
S1E5 How to Overcome and Win Your Divorce Negotiation
Communication is where divorce outcomes are quietly shaped, or quietly undone. In this episode, Cynthia uses a memorable story about a simple “you have the floor” rule to unpack what real listening looks like when emotions run high and decisions matter. She explains why communication during divorce isn’t about saying the perfect thing, but about timing, restraint, and choosing the right medium for the moment. The episode walks through practical markers that help you recognize when you’re communicating from intention versus reaction, how the power of the pause protects your progress, and why emails, texts, and conversations each have a proper role. If negotiation, conflict, or emotionally charged conversations feel risky or exhausting, this episode offers a steadier way to communicate that supports better decisions and protects the future you’re building.
S1E6 A Little-Known Secret to Reduce Divorce Conflict
Reducing conflict in divorce often starts with understanding the system you’re stepping into. In this episode, Cynthia draws an unexpected parallel between lottery winners who learned the rules of the game and people navigating divorce without understanding its dynamics. She explains why divorce has the power to reshape nearly every part of life; not because of emotion alone, but because it unfolds inside a legal system with its own structure, rules, and pressure points. By exploring how courts function, how decisions are made, and why misunderstandings create unnecessary conflict, this episode reframes “understanding” as a strategic advantage. If divorce feels overwhelming, unpredictable, or adversarial, this conversation helps you see how learning the dynamics of the process can reduce friction, support better decisions, and protect the future you’re working toward.
S1E7 How to Have Awesome Impact on Your Divorce
The way you think during divorce shapes the outcomes you live with long after it’s over. In this episode, Cynthia introduces the idea of a solution-oriented mindset through powerful stories about resilience, leadership, and refusing to give up when the path forward isn’t obvious. She explains why divorce often presents moments that feel impossible — difficult emails, sudden deadlines, or choices that seem to have no good option — and how shifting the question from “Why is this happening?” to “What’s possible from here?” changes everything. This episode focuses on developing the mental muscle that helps you move forward with intention, even in uncertainty, so decisions are guided by the future you’re building rather than the conflict you’re in. If divorce feels heavy or limiting right now, this conversation offers a steadier, more hopeful way to create impact where it matters most.
S1E8 Sights on Success - Q&A
When you can clearly see where you want your life to go, today’s decisions become easier to navigate. In this Q&A-style episode, Cynthia explores the role of future vision as both an anchor and a responsibility during divorce. Using stories about seeing the ending of movies before they unfold, she invites you to step into the role of the “viewer” — the person who can imagine what comes next and let that vision guide present choices. The episode reframes divorce as a rare moment of reset, where imagining a meaningful “happily ever after” is not wishful thinking, but an intentional act that shapes outcomes. If you’re facing uncertainty and big questions, this conversation helps you reconnect with the future you want to build and use that vision to steady your path forward.
S1E9 How to Avoid Overpaying for Your Divorce
Overpaying in divorce isn’t always about legal fees or hourly rates — it’s often about the hidden costs that show up later. In this episode, Cynthia looks beyond dollars and cents to explore how value, perception, and opportunity cost shape divorce decisions. Using familiar examples and real-life observations, she explains why some choices feel “worth it” in the moment but carry consequences that last far longer than the process itself. The focus is on learning how to slow down, recognize which decisions truly matter, and consider what you may be giving up when you say yes to one path over another. If you want to protect not just your finances, but your future relationships, time, and peace of mind, this episode offers a more thoughtful way to avoid paying too high a price during divorce.
S1E10 Divorce HELP Connection - Guide to Free Resources
This episode is not a list of links — it’s a shift in how you look for answers. Coming after the solution-oriented mindset work, this conversation reframes free resources as part of a larger treasure hunt, where believing solutions exist is what allows you to find them. Cynthia explores how divorce often narrows thinking into scarcity and urgency, and how expanding your awareness opens access to tools, information, and support that many people overlook. The focus is on developing the confidence to search, evaluate, and use resources wisely, rather than assuming help is inaccessible or out of reach. If you’ve ever felt like everything in divorce comes with a price tag, this episode invites you to see the process differently — as one where answers are often already available to those willing to look for them.
